Transgender Day of Remembrance. Did it all begin with Jean de Arc? Open Arms Pastor Brae Adams joins the conversation

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Remembrance photos of transgender victims of violence. Nicole Clark self-identifies as “fabulous” (even in my blurry pic)

To show solidarity for an event and a cause deserving support and its own kind of celebration, I visited Open Arms Metropolitan Community Church of Western New York on East Main Street.  All day Friday, Open Arms was holding a vigil to honor the many transgender lives lost to violence in the past year. Open Arms MCC, established in Rochester in 1981, welcomes all individuals regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.

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(back) Jaime, Thomas, Julie. Nicole Clark, Britnay (front) JoAnn, Kathy, Dwain

Not as well versed as I would like in the transgender movement — if it should be called that — I did some preliminary research. My attention caught by one small part of the discussion. Was Joan of Arc transgender (for which there were 8 responses on Yahoo questions)?

Hook in hand, I inquired of Open Arms’ Lay Pastoral Leader Brae Adams: was Joan transgender and what does asking — and answering — that question say about transgender folks, past and present?

Funny you should ask, said Brae.  Actually, a portion of the thesis she is writing for her master’s work at Colgate Divinity School is devoted to that very topic. Serendipity. Had my angle!

As Brae is both a fellow academic (prone to prolixity) and  a pastor (aware of audience needs and attention spans), we set her response limit to 150 words:

Was Joan of Arc the first transgender saint?  Hard to know. She wore the armor of a man and fought in seven successful battles, even directing troops for France in the Hundred Years war against England. What is certain is Joan wore the armor of a man in combat. Possibly out of practicality. After all, most likely  women’s clothiers were not well versed in chain mail. The battle field was no place for a woman’s corset and petticoats. Even when captured and tried by the English, Joan dressed as a man.  Only when she,“stood confessed and convicted did she permit herself to be dressed as a woman.” (Holly Dever, FTM Female to Male Transsexuals in Society, 1997, Indiana UP) Does this mean she was transgender? Surely there is validity to that claim. Historically, hard to know. What is certain is that she was surely no slave to the gender conventions of her day.

Had just the beginning of my answer. Hardly limited to 150 words (Pastor Brae was only 4 words over the mark!) our conversation ranged from the Spanish Inquisition, Huxley’s Brave New World, Caitlin Jenner, Queen Victoria, biological determinism, “gender nihilism,” gender “passing,” the staggering toll of hate crimes against transgender people to what it really feels like to be a man or a woman. More from Brae to come. brae 7

When first arriving at Open Arms, I noticed part of a wall on which were hanging dozens of name tags.  Each tag simply included a name and 3 pronouns for each: him, he, his or she, her, hers or they, them and theirs.

The tags are the great equalizer at Open Arms where each person can identify what pronouns represent themselves and their truth. So no one is singled out for their outward appearance, the tags are worn by all members regardless of their gender identity. Everyone is known and respected as they understand themselves.

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Open Arms Lay Pastor Leader Brae Adams and myself [Photo: Nicole Clark] Transgender Day of Remembrance 11/20/15

Appropriately, at the event, a representative of the City of Rochester read a Proclamation in support of the Day.brae 6

see WROC TV Day of Remembrance


Remembering in 1991 when the RCSD proudly led the way against discrimination